"This
is the "thank you" I meant to write you long ago. It is from both
Alicia & I. One fine day, many years ago, you met us at LAX airport. That
was the beginning of the end of Alicia's drug abuse. You took 1 scared, addicted
teenager, and guided her through a process that saved her. You said to me if
Alicia stays here & participates in this program, she will never need another
drug-rehab again. You were so kind, so positive, explaining the Narconon Program,
reassuring me there was always hope. When Narconon told me of all the drugs
Alicia used -- heroin, cocaine, LSD, ecstasy, uppers,
downers, Ritalin, Special K, & most at the same time, I thought this was
an
impossible situation.
Remember
when she ran away & you went out after her? Above & Beyond! I know she
was a tough one to have around all that time, after all, I lived with her all
those years. She kept messing up, she was always on "Ethics" with
Pat! You told me she only knew how to self-destruct & self-sabotage. She
never experienced success, so this was the only road she knew. You all were
trying to show her another road to travel. How about how long it took her to
graduate! When I finally flew to Narconon for her graduation, the room was filled
with well-wishers. If Alicia could graduate, anyone could.
She
thinks so highly of you, all of you at Narconon. She lives by what you taught
her. She resides & works in Santa Barbara. She is going to college there.
She is a straight A student & does not use drugs! She is so happy she is
still smart & did not fry her brains! So Larry, I am eternally grateful
to you & Narconon, for all the wonderful work you do. For I handed you a
drug addict, & you handed me back my daughter."
P.C.
September 6, 2003
To Whom It May Concern;
In 1995 my husband and I were overwhelmed with worry, guilt and anger because
of our son’s drug use.
We did not know his drug of choice and we did not know the extent of his habit.
What we did know is that he was lying to us continuously; his choice of friends
was questionable based on their appearance and social behavior.
Ed always was concerned about his appearance and that never changed, but his surroundings
and those around him showed a total disregard for his family, our privacy and
our belongings. By 1995, Ed could not hold a job or continue with his own business
as a contractor. He would be gone for 2-3 days, come home, and pretend to be working
on a project or going to school for a new career.
At this time, Ed was 26 years of age and the only hope we had, was that he came
from a good family with strong values, and we hoped that his foundation and family
love would bring him around to get help.
We continued to accuse, ask, pry, yell, cry and beg for him to get help. He would
tell us he did not have a drug problem and he did not drink. Things were going
to get better after this class, or another job opportunity was on the horizon.
There was always a good story. A good excuse. A reason for the insanity. When
you love someone, you allow yourself to have a lot of hope. You want to believe,
that all will get better. How could we have raised a son to be so totally useless?
One that would lie? A son that showed no remorse for his behavior. A son that
showed no awareness of what he was doing to his brother, parents and other family
members.
During this time, I would make several calls to drug rehab centers, but no one
wanted to talk to the mother of an adult with a drug problem. We got counseling
from friends, family and professionals. They suggested tuff love, “He will change
when he is ready” or “When he wants to get it together he will”. We considered
having him leave and move out of our home. I could not do this because then I
feared our next call would be from the morgue. It now sounds so ridiculous but
at the time these were real fears.
In September of 1999, my husband arrived at my office to tell me that Ed was in
jail. That night, after the tears, we slept well, knowing that he was not doing
drugs and knowing he was not dead and knowing that a call was not coming tonight.
While Ed was in jail, I again tried to locate someone who could give us some hope
regarding a rehab program. Our attorney advised us to locate Ed in a drug treatment
center far away from home. Now we had to locate a facility and make a big decision.
I started my newest research on the Internet. I went to a search engine and pulled
up multiple drug rehab facilities. Some were for 28 days and some were gender
specific, some were reaching out from specific religions. My psychology degree
armed me with the knowledge that someone is probably not going to change behavior
in 28 days. I wanted a long commitment, a minimum of 3-4 months.
I wrote to all of the centers with programs that had the smallest suggestion of
hope. I gave my home number, my cell number, and my office number. These were
all private programs. I was looking for a program that had a good location because
I knew someone coming up again to face the world, needed to have a good feeling
about themselves and their physical surroundings. I liked the information the
Narconon program provided. I was impressed with the time commitment and the promises
which all came true.
Within 24 hours, someone from Narconon called me. It was the first voice that
offered us help. I was a mother losing her son; I was starving for assistance.
Ed was in jail for approximately one week and two representatives from Narconon
stayed in touch with me. They called me daily, sometimes twice a day. They would
no let me lose hope. They told me what to expect. They told me what Ed would say
when he was released from jail. They told me that we had 24 hours to get him into
a program before he would be repeating his behavior and starting the cycle again.
They were right! Their detailed analysis and their caring to stay in touch with
us daily gave us the strength to get Ed from Northern California, to Southern
California. We took their advice. We delivered Ed to the Narconon facility in
Newport Beach in September of 1999.
The Narconon program worked for our son. We noticed a major difference in Ed within
a month. Ed had been using methamphetamine (speed). It was not an instant change
but after the sauna portion, he admitted to feeling better and he showed great
promise to becoming the young man we all knew who did not use drugs. Ed was beginning
to look at us with eyes wide open and a smile. A smile that needed dental work,
a smile that needed to make a lot of amends. He had legal problems because of
the drug abuse, and Narconon counseled us with more advice.
My husband is a retired fire fighter and I am the owner of a Real Estate Office
in Northern California, I am also the President of my local REALTOR Association.
We are active in our community and with our families.
The Narconon program has given Ed a new chance, which he is embracing. As his
parents we are proud of him for his success and his hard work. We are confident
that the past will not be repeated. Ed is now showing genuine concern for his
brother and their relationship. I believe his involvement with the Narconon organization
has given Ed the strength to develop as a person so he can love and be loved.
And we love him.
D.S.
By
the age of 32, I had abused alcohol for 16 years. At that time, I had lost a
career, a spouse, and was on the verge of never being able to see my 3-year-old
daughter again due to the fear that had been created in my ex-wife over my lack
of control regarding my drinking. My mother was at wits end, and was also soon
to wash her hands of me.
In
taking one final chance to salvage her son, my mother brought me to Narconon.
After spending a few days of detoxing from the alcohol, I awoke to a miserable
state of mind regarding myself. I was 32 years old, a complete failure in life
and in rehab. I wanted to die and not face the misery that I had put others
through as well as myself through. I felt utterly alone and had no idea of how
to go about fixing anything about these relationships, and hence, wanted to
just give up on life.
Fortunately,
I had around the clock care. This was probably the most vulnerable time in my
life, and with me by my side 24 hours a day during this time was a dedicated
staff member of Narconon to assist me in my recovery. During this time, I was
treated with dignity. I was nourished, exercised lightly, and soothed and calmed
by professional treatment. I was in a place where somebody was actually going
out of their way to tend to my needs. I was bewildered as to why anybody would
treat me in such a manner. I felt as if I did not deserve this treatment, and
was shocked that it was actually being delivered to me.
After
a few more days of this treatment, I was gradually integrated into the actual
program that Narconon had to offer. I was started on a regiment of communication
exercises that further calmed me and brought me back into reality. I was starting
to get to know some of the other people that were involved in this program and
soon began to recognize that they were some pretty good people that (to me)
didnt seem to have any problems. I thought to myself what are these
people doing here? I soon started to understand that these people were
just like me. They had just been through the program a little bit longer and
had handled themselves much more than I already had. They encouraged me to just
stick with the program and apply myself to it, and I would turn my life around.
Yeah, right, I said to myself.
After
getting through the communication exercises and that had helped me to calm down
to a strong degree, I was informed that I would be doing the sauna portion of
the program. Okay, I was feeling a bit better, so I figured Id give it
a shot and last it out a little bit longer. I still didnt feel as if I
was cured. As a matter of fact, I hadnt even started addressing alcohol
in the two weeks that I had been there. I hadnt talked about it once to
any of my counselors, and therefore didnt feel as if I was making any
progress.
In
doing the sauna portion of the program, I started to feel much better physically
and mentally. I started exercising and was on a strong vitamin regiment combined
with sweating the impurities out of my body. By the time I was done with this
portion of the program, I had regained some confidence in myself. I could actually
run several miles relatively easily and was overall just feeling physically
fantastic. Hmm, there might actually be something to this stuff after all I
thought.
From
this point on, I started focusing on the technology and learning what I could
from it. I had been around for just over a month by now, was feeling very good,
had a clear head, and was starting to feel that life was pretty manageable after
all. The materials that I learned from this point on made a tremendous amount
of sense to me. Much of what I was learning also had a familiar sense to me
as well. Like I had known it through my upbringing, but just never had it explained
to me in such a concise manner.
These
materials emphasized such things, as making sure you understood something when
you read it, treating others the way that you would want to be treated, establishing
a good sense of the reality of the world around you, developing and staying
with a moral and ethical code, and staying away from negative influences in
your life. By the time I had read all of these materials, I was recognizing
within myself that I was not a terrible, awful person, but just somebody that
had gone against the basic principles that my family and friends had instilled
in me as I was growing up. Well, I could correct these negative traits about
myself, and with each new principle read, I indeed did so.
I
was also helped during this time in putting these principles into application
with my family and friends. I was encouraged to restore communication with my
loved ones. I was terribly afraid of doing so at first. The anxiety that I went
through the first time that I called my ex-wife was incredibly strong. By the
time I was done with that first phone call, I was extremely grateful for those
communication exercises that I went through in the beginning. These allowed
me to be as comfortable as I possibly could despite the anxiety. The amazing
part of it was, with each phone call, it became easier and easier to communicate.
I was beginning to recognize more so, that my loved ones really did care about
me and were just interested in me doing the right things in life and not causing
any havoc in any of our lives.
By
this time, I began to recognize that alcohol was not the problem. It was all
of the social skills that I had been lacking in that was the true problem. With
each correction of my skills, I was soon becoming quite confident in my ability
to deal with the everyday problems of life without turning to alcohol to escape
them. And with each new victory in confronting these problems, my confidence
grew, until finally, I had completed the program that had been laid out.
I
felt very, very good. I had been doing the right things for about four months.
I had restored the good feelings of my family, my friends, and most importantly
in my life at the time, my daughter. For the first time in my life, I knew I
had the capability of being a father. I also knew that I had the ability to
be a friend, an employee, a husband, or anything else that I so desired.
Since
the day that I graduated the program, there have been many, many situations
in life that I have had to face that were difficult. But I had learned that
life is made of situations and problems that need to be sorted out and dealt
with. I had learned that if I didnt solve these situations with the best
resolve that I had, that I would not feel good about myself. But that if I did
solve these problems, I would feel much better about myself. Pretty simple,
actually, succeed or fail. And I had been given the tools to succeed, again.
Once by my upbringing, and again through Narconon. And what I chose to do is
succeed.
I
am forever grateful that I was given the opportunity to turn my life around
for the better. I dont believe that I would have ever done so on my own
accord. I know that regardless of whatever occurs in life from here on out,
that alcohol and/or drugs is not the solution to the problem, and that these
could only make the matters worse. I enjoy the confidence of family and friends
alike, that I will do all in my power to ensure that I never betray, and wont
through alcohol or drugs. Life is too good and enjoyable when one is doing the
right things and displaying the reasons why one is loved.
Im
proud to say that I have now been sober for almost six years now. I have my
head on straight, I think with the foresight of the consequences of my actions,
and only act with the best interest of others in mind. Without a doubt, I never
would have felt or behaved this way if it werent for the fact of doing
the Narconon program. It is truly a life-changing course of action that I support
fully.
-D.W.
I
began using marijuana at the age of 10. My parents had divorced. My father moved
away. I was angry and confused about life. I wanted to escape. I wanted friends.
As
the years went on, I gravitated toward kids that were in similar circumstances
as myself. Kids who were from single parent households, who stole, who used
drugs, and who had little responsibility.
I
started to sell marijuana by age 14. It started out small and eventually went
into large quantities. All of my hopes and dreams faded away. I lost the motivation
to work and succeed in a legal occupation. I had no goals and no self-esteem.
To deal with this along with the increasing anxiety of being a drug dealer,
I started to go out to clubs to drink, I also started using ecstasy and crack.
I found myself in a deeper and deeper pit. I finally realized I needed help
when I ruined a nine-year relationship. I was depressed over the loss and the
partying only made me feel worse. I didnt know where to go for help.
I
went to Narconon and it has been the best thing I have ever accomplished. I
no longer sell or use drugs. But thats only half of it. I now enjoy going
to work, because I am a Drug Education Lecturer for Narconon. I go out to schools
across Southern California to educate children on the dangers of drugs, helping
to ensure they make better choices in life and use their education to achieve
their goals.
-G.M.
9/2/02
To Whom It May Concern,
I wish to offer my testimony of the Narconon organization and the marvelous work
these dedicated people do. Having been asked to give an understanding of my background,
I offer the following:
My mother was the granddaughter of Dr. Willard, an apostle in the Church of Jesus
Christ of Latter-day Saints who loved the prophet Joseph Smith and was with him
at Carthage when he was murdered by a mob. As a child I sat at the feet of my
grandfather many times to hear stories his father told him about his good friend,
Joseph Smith. With an unbending testimony of the gospel of Jesus Christ, I served
a full time mission and was 2nd counselor to the mission president.
After being sealed to a choice companion in the temple, we have enjoyed bringing
6 lovely children into the world; I have been called to 4 high councils in the
LDS Church, 3 stake presidencies, served twice as a bishop and once as a stake
president. As chairman of the Denver Temple District, with a membership of 84,000
people, I was responsible for the site selection, zoning, preparation, and daily
observed the construction of the Denver Temple. I was released as stake president
to serve in the first Denver Temple presidency.
Five of our children lived very straight moral LDS lives --- which has included
temple marriages for each and full time missions for 3 boys and 1 girl. We now
adore 18 happy grandchildren who are all active in the church.
One of our children, our youngest son, got involved with liquor, nicotine, and
drugs early in junior high school. For ten years we struggled with this terrible
experience. Satan had total control. We were on our knees continually and attended
the temple weekly, placing his name on the temple rolls. By the time he had reached
college age, we had to ask him to leave our house and make his own way. We would
love him always but could not contribute financially to his downfall nor allow
him to destroy the spirit in our home.
When he finally discovered that he could not support his habits by working 4 jobs
and trying to get an education, and after a short stay in jail, he woke us up
in the middle of the night and asked for a blessing. He said that he wanted to
go on a mission (being the only one in 5 generations not to do so weighed heavily)
but that he needed and finally wanted our help.
We had a friend, Dr. Fila, who has studied drug addiction and rehabilitation for
many years. We followed his advice and took our son to Narconon in Newport Beach.
After 3 months at Narconon he was free from all addiction but the nicotine habit.
He was so committed to his Narconon experience that he accepted employment with
them. With the loving help of a family friend, who was a bishop in the area, he
was able to overcome all of his problems including the nicotine. After two years
of hard work, he received the mission call that had become all important to him.
This past March he was honorably released from that mission.
Our son is returned to us -- he is his old, loving self and now goes to the University
of Utah full time. What a thrill it was for our family to have all six children
seated with their mother and me in the temple prior to his mission and again upon
his return.
We cannot say enough good about Narconon. They saved our son’s life. We now receive
calls on a regular basis from people who are looking for answers. The staff at
Narconon are dedicated only to saving the lives of those in trouble. We are so
convinced that the Narconon experience is the answer to eliminating substance
abuse through their unique sweat program where weeks on end are spent in a sauna.
This is the key. Without this portion of the program, drug addicts never rid themselves
of the drugs stored in the fatty tissues of the body. We think this is vital.
I believe that the program is divinely inspired and would strongly recommend it
to anyone.
Sincerely,
J.B.
September 4, 2002
To: Shannon
I am writing this letter to let you know what a positive experience I have had
talking to the staff at your facility and how Narconon has really helped me and
my son Jason heal our relationship. I had put Jason into many drug recovery programs
in the past, but he never responded to his treatment. He relapsed over and over
again. I had become a very sick person physically and emotionally while he was
using drugs. I had almost lost hope for him and myself. Our family members were
upset and could not accept him or his behavior any longer. I found out about Narconon
from the Internet one day while I was desperately looking for something to help
him recover. I called the phone number and spoke to Larry. Larry was very understanding
and kind. He took as much time as I needed to explain the program and how it could
work for Jason. Jason had been through 12 step programs and they had not helped
him at all. Once I saw Narconon was not a 12 step program I spoke to Jason and
asked him to try a different type of recovery program, a program that would give
him a positive attitude about his recovery and teach him coping skills.
Jason left for Narconon in Newport Beach in 1999. He went through the program
and I noticed a change in him even in the first few months. He found the self-esteem
he had lost. Jason really liked the staff and the classes he took. He started
talking about his own recovery when we spoke on the phone and when he wrote me
letters. Jason was starting to grow up and through Narconon’s wonderful program,
Jason became a responsible, loving young man again. I would recommend this program
to anyone who has a loved one who suffers from substance abuse. It turned my son’s
life around and has let my family become close again. The staff at Narconon are
a special group of people who are dedicated to helping those who want to be helped.
Sincerely,
E.J.
Dear Shannon,
Please accept this as an open letter of appreciation to Narconon and it’s staff
for their successful efforts on behalf of our son Chris.
As a successful entrepreneur and businessman responsible for million dollar payrolls
and hundreds of employees, I always felt confident about my abilities to face
and manage problems and issues. I was equally confident that I could deal with
whatever issues and problems were involved in building a marriage and helping
to raise our 3 sons. In fact I was very confident about “life” until our son Chris
became involved with DRUGS in his freshman year of high school.
The lectures and discussions on the dangers of smoking pot seem like they took
place yesterday, but it was actually 25 years ago. Unbelievable! It didn’t take
long for that confidence to give way to frustration and futility. Unfortunately
we all became slaves to his addiction.
It didn’t take 25 years to recognize:
1) the distance traveled between smoking pot and becoming a hapless crack addict
is barely perceptible
2) “Getting clean” means nothing without being given the “hands-on, real life”
tools necessary for that addict to make life style changes.
My message to you is simply that Chris has been in a great many formal and informal
rehab programs, ONLY NARCONON has provided a program that includes “getting clean”
but more importantly has provided those tools that result in restored self esteem,
self confidence and independence.
Contrary to what some may say, Narconon teaches the student “how to think” not
“what to think”. This then becomes the foundation of learning how to recognize
your options and trusting in yourself to make the right decisions. Add those facets
of the program to the opportunity for that student to continue on as part of the
staff to utilize that knowledge to benefit others and to begin to make those life
style changes in a secure environment make the program that much more valuable.
Shannon, as you know Chris is currently part of the staff. The fact that he is
a productive part of society and making a contribution is a credit to the Narconon
program and his desire to overcome his addiction. We are most grateful to you
and to Narconon.
Respectfully,
G. S. C.
I
first came to Narconon on November 18, 1998. I am from Mexico City and I have
been in four different rehabs and that did nothing for me but accumulate a lot
of anger toward my family for putting me there. ( I didnt want to change
at the time) I was lucky enough to have a friend of my family come to my house,
knock on the door and introduce Narconon and the purification part of the program
to me. I was instantly interested. I knew then that I had a chance. Something
different. For once, something that I wanted. I was dying, desperate for a change
in my life.
Here
while doing the program, something inside me clicked. I knew then that this
would work. All I needed was someone to tell me how to do it; how to stay away
from drugs. I knew that the rest was up to me.
I
now know that the ability has always been within me. The problem was I didnt
realize it was lying dormant. Now with the technology of L. Ron Hubbard and
the guidance of the great staff at Narconon, my life has changed dramatically.
I can now confront problems in my life, and I found out that my life is worth
living. That living is beautiful. Now, any problem, or better yet, any situation
that I might encounter, I will find a solution with the technology that I learned
here. I know that applying it to my daily life, the condition of my life has
bettered 100%. Even more! I now see opportunities, when in the past I saw them
as problems. Of my 22 years of addiction to cocaine, marijuana, and alcohol,
I dont regret a moment of it because without having gone through it I
wouldnt be here at Narconon.
Because
of me doing this program, the communication with my entire family has been restored.
I am grateful for this because they all were there for me. I was the one who
had withdrawn from them. Im back as a whole human being. I am grateful.
-R.S.
"This
is a letter of thanks and recognition to all those associated with the work,
endeavors and promise of Narconon. It is our sincere hope to reach out to families
and friends of loved ones still inside the downward spiral of drugs, alcohol
and self-destructive addictions. Narconon gave and continues to give our daughter
a second chance at life.
As
Christian parents we struggled with concerns over Narconons creator, L.
Ron Hubbard and the possibility of enrolling our daughter in a cult.
We watched intently and followed the overall detoxification process, course
content and concepts very closely. Happily and gratefully we concluded that
the staff and, indeed the concept of Narconon, have all of humanitys noblest
interests at heart. The tools given our daughter are universal and not religiously
specific. Communication with family and positive influences are encouraged on
a regular basis. We applaud and commend our daughters tremendous efforts
to make it happen and stick to it until she completed the first phase of the
program. We also appreciate the comfort zone offered by Narconons philosophy
that it takes as long as it takes to be cured. There is no specific
number of days in which the student must return to the world again before he/she
is ready.
Our
twenty year old daughter reached the bottom with a smorgasbord of drugs, raves
and destructive lifestyles. Most of her friends only added to the spiral of
lies, cheating and misinformation that take up all of an addicts time
when relating to those who love them. Loss of her job, loss and distancing from
productive friends, her feelings of worthlessness and emotional depression brought
the whole family perilously close to a tragic ending.
As
we approached the reality of a tragic end for our daughter, an internet web
search and analysis brought Narconon to our attention as a very different concept
in treating addictions. While the Narconon concept has been around for decades,
it is new to the uninitiated who never had a need for it! Narconon works on
the whole individual and gives its in-house students the tools for life to overcome
both the physiological and psychological holds of addiction. Narconons
different concepts allow its students to say and believe that they were addicts
before Narconon and that after they graduate, if they practice the precepts
of the training, they are no longer addicts and are able to lead happy, productive,
addiction-free lives.
In
the end it is up to the individual addict to want to rise up from the hell of
their addiction. Our daughter now has the opportunity to be a happy, productive
member of society. That chance is directly a result of the love, care and tools
provided by the staff of Narconon. We thank Narconon for giving our daughter
that chance.
Both
my wife and I stand ready to communicate through Narconon with anyone who requests
or needs to share our experiences. No system is perfect and, ultimately, it
is up to the individual to make his/her way in life. Narconon provides one answer
that can and does work to make the world a better place."
-J.O., A.O.
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